Personal Counseling offers help in coping with tragedy

  • Shock and disbelief: immediately after learning about such a disaster, many people may feel numb, or feel like such an event can’t quite be real.
  • Speculation about what happened and seeking more information, such as listening to or watching the news, checking the web for updates, talking to others about what you each know or have heard.
  • Feeling sadness or anger about the tragedy and discussing this with family, friends and colleagues.
  • Wanting to check in with loved ones, even if they are not close to the disaster, or in any immediate danger. It is normal to want to touch base with someone you care about.

In the hours and days following such tragedies, the shock begins to wear off, and more feelings may emerge, such as sadness and anger. It is important to share these feelings with people that you trust. For some people, the level of feelings or the kinds of questions that emerge may indicate that additional counseling support would be helpful.

Circumstances or signs that may lead you to seek additional support:

  • Do you have friends or family members in New York or Washington, D.C.?
  • Is this event bringing up recollections of previous loss, trauma or crisis that you or a loved one have faced?
  • Are your experiencing heightened feelings of anxiety, fear for your safety or rage?
  • Are you crying more than usual in response to sadness?
  • Are you wondering what to tell your children about this event or how they will react?

If you are experiencing any of these circumstances, or just wish to talk to a counselor for additional support, call Personal Counseling, (651) 962-6780, or come to Room 360, Murray-Herrick Campus Center, to see a counselor. Faculty and staff may also wish to call LifeBalance, a 24-hour St. Thomas employee support service provided by Unum Inc. at 1 (800) 854-1446.

Also available for support are: Campus Ministry, (651) 962-6560; International Student Services, (651) 962-6654; Multicultural Student Services, (651) 962-6460; and the Minneapolis Life Work Center, (651) 962-4763.

Personal Counseling has walk-in appointment times to accommodate people needing additional support during this difficult time. Also, please feel free to contact us to consult about any questions you may have.