
I made my decision to go to the University of St. Thomas almost on default. I had not originally intended to spend my undergraduate career here. It was one of my “safety” schools. My applications were accepted at each university, so I had a tough decision to make. I flew to New York; I visited Madison and I wandered around UST. Never before had I felt instantly comfortable. The campus is beautiful! Each student, member of our faculty or staff I passed on the sidewalk smiled or said ‘hi!’ There were a group of men, who looked like grumpy grandfathers, playing music in the lower quad, a game of Frisbee going on around them and a student snoozing under one of the tall trees. Seriously, can you get much better than that? None of the other schools made sense anymore – UST was were I wanted to be. The next few years were not going to be easy financially because of my decision to attend UST, but I knew I would be happy.
If one can get past the daily competition amongst women students- who has the newest? The best? The brightest? -Overall, I think being a woman on campus, here at UST, was like being a woman on any other campus. I’m Caucasian from a middle- to upper- class background. I’m Christian, albeit not Catholic. My viewpoint due to my social standing and background is probably a bit biased.
I had classes taught by powerful women in Twin Cities industry. They balanced an academic life, a career and their home. These women made me feel empowered; they offered insight and their stories.
My time at St. Thomas changed my interactions with the world through simply opening me to it. We’re still quite sheltered here at UST – our viewpoints are commonly shared; our ideas commonly expressed among the “educated elite.” Despite all this, I have had the opportunity to tutor and mentor young children at a not-so-privileged middle school. Through one of my courses, I was able to talk to an 80plus –year- old man about his stories and his life. St. Thomas offered me interactions with those I would not have approached myself. St. Thomas forced me to interact, thus forcing me to become a better person.
I have yet to leave the arches of St. Thomas, but I will soon enough. I know that I will take with me integrity, faith, and a desire to be challenged. I will become an opener of doors for someone else through charity – time, energy and money. I have become a woman who is well-respected, but most of all, who truly respects and loves herself.
To be given the same opportunities I was given: To have someone watching out for her financially so that she can truly attain the best education in the Midwest – one that allows her to explore her faith, her community, and academics.